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What saved my marriage: towards a more equal shared life

Let's get real, here: how many of you regularly fight with their partner about house chores or children's care? After our first child was born, my husband and I struggled to find a balance. He threw himself body and soul into parenting, but didn't replicate the same enthusiasm for house chores, which grew exponentially with… Continue reading What saved my marriage: towards a more equal shared life

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They did not live happily ever after

(The following article authored by myself originally appeared on the magazine Yliopisto-Lehti) "The purpose of marriage is not being happy". My colleague stares at me with eyes wide open, not knowing what to say, when I state that while having lunch with her. "Then what is?", she asks, opening a life theme I have pondered… Continue reading They did not live happily ever after